How long is too long to let my 10MO cry? Everything is fine with her, I think. I just spend awhile holding her. She has fun toys with her and I'm right there. I just can't hold her all day. Any ideas?
my son used to do this it was so hard to cook for months until he grew out of the phase. But, to at least distract him I'd give him some pots and pans and big kitchen plastic spoons, or measuring cups, to play with while I tried to get…
When my daughter was born, of course my dr. told me I needed to drink a lot of water for breastfeeding, but she also strongly cautioned me not to drink out of plastic due to xenoestrogens. I have a uterine fibroid and this could be contributing to…
I used to do this with my daughter too. My first was like this as well. I used to use our Snugi (when she was a baby) because it seemed like I couldn't put her down. And because she was my first, I certainly wasn't going to let her cry!…
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Help! I may have spoiled my 16MO daughter. She has a really hard time if I try to cook or clean. She clings to my legs and cries desperately "Mama! Mama!" until I pick her up. Preparing breakfast and dinner is nearly impossible. I am a first time mom so I don't know what to do. the crying breaks my heart. She doesn't like her playpen or highchair. How can I get her to play on her own?
A discussion started by Emma Kung was featuredJun 23, 2009
I agree with several others and with Lisa. It depends on the child. With my first, I could just give him some pots and pans and let him bang away. With my third, he is only happy in a carrier (at times). I would try several things and see what works…
Try to work on the sleeping first. If she's only 16 months old, that is probably not enough sleep for her, which could be contributing to her extreme clinginess. At that age, she needs one, good nap a day, right after lunch. She will probably…
This is a little contrary to the rest of the ideas suggested, but have you thought about using a carrier (like an Ergo) so that you can carry her on your back while you do some simple cleaning & cooking? It's not ideal but makes for a much…
I am going through this as well. My daughter is 23 months old and I think that I have spent most of my cooking holding onto her at the same time. She does have access to a cabinet and drawers and sometimes she plays with them, but a lot of times it…
Sounds like you will just have to let her cry. If you are in the same room and she is in no danger, she does not "need" you to pick her up. You are the mom and you must not let her be in charge of you. Break the habit of her monopolizing…
Thanks for all the advice. I will try setting her up with some things to play with just for kitchen. I think I have been a little lazy in using some of these techniques to help her play on her own.. Instead I am going for a quick fix of picking her…