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Pacifiers?

I may or may not have a way-too-old-for-this child still sleeping with a paci. Tell me your tricks for getting him to give it up with minimal trauma.

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MaureenPermalink Reply by Maureen on May 29, 2009 at 10:43am
WHat's too old? My son never wanted one but my daughter is a huge fan. She's almost 20 months old now and always wants a binki and a spare at nap or bedtime (and in the day if she remembers it). I'm starting to limit her during waking hours (mostly by distraction and keeping them out of sight) but do wonder how I'm going to eventually retire them completely.
Danielle BeanPermalink Reply by Danielle Bean on May 29, 2009 at 10:44am
I used to think 2 was "too old." But now I've ... uh, changed my mind about that. ;)
Sarah ReinhardPermalink Reply by Sarah Reinhard on May 29, 2009 at 11:01am
That's a good question - "what's too old?" I definitely laid down the law with my older (now 4), but my 20mo is, um, pretty hooked. (And pretty cute about it. I'm supposed to be immune to the cute thing, aren't I?)

I need to put a plan together for my 20mo. Guess this is the spur in my saddle...*groan*
MaureenPermalink Reply by Maureen on May 29, 2009 at 4:35pm
I wonder what kind of fight I'll get when I retire them. I thought final weaning would be horrible but had my hand forced when I couldn't nurse for 24hrs after a medical test. My husband put her down that night and went into her room when she woke during the night. She wasn't happy but didn't protest too much---(she was down to bedtime and night waking) -- so we just did the same thing the next couple of nights and she was weaned.
Hallie LordPermalink Reply by Hallie Lord on May 29, 2009 at 5:24pm
Right before our third child was born we took our 2 year old son to Toys-R-Us and let him trade his pacifiers for a Thomas the Train piece. This might not work for everyone but my son never asked for his "Nuk" again. Now if only I could figure out how to get my oh-so stubborn almost three year old to give up her diapers.
Sarah ReinhardPermalink Reply by Sarah Reinhard on May 30, 2009 at 6:18am
No fair bringing up potty training! :)
MaureenPermalink Reply by Maureen on May 30, 2009 at 8:37am
no kidding - I just bought some of those flannel backed tableclothes to put on the couches under a blanket in anticipation of going for it with my son (and hopefully his sister will want to do it too).
Hallie LordPermalink Reply by Hallie Lord on June 3, 2009 at 4:01pm
I wish you both luck! I can't believe how stubborn my girl is! My boys were SO easy to train! I had no idea how good I had it. Serves me right. ;)
Sarah ReinhardPermalink Reply by Sarah Reinhard on June 3, 2009 at 4:06pm
Your prayer opportunity?

A chance to offer it up?

A divinely inspired moment of screaming?

:)
MaureenPermalink Reply by Maureen on June 3, 2009 at 4:10pm
All I can say is thank God for washing machines
Michelle OuellettePermalink Reply by Michelle Ouellette on May 30, 2009 at 2:24pm
All of my children have been soooo different when it comes to those darn binks! My oldest never took one, and still sucks his thumb at night, (he is 6 years old, but he has other reasons for this behavior). Our soon to be 4 year old, had his taken away from him when he was 11 months old because when he would wake in his crib in the middle of the night, he would scream because he couldn't find his bink. No matter how many we had in there, he couldn't seem to find one, and we would inevitably have to go search for one to help him settle down. Finally, after getting up several times a night to do this, we decided to bite the bullet and just take it from him. We had 4-5 rough nites and then he stopped missing it. Needless to say, this is the one guy who now sleeps at the end of our bed everynight....hmmmm. Our daughter gave hers up on her own at the age of...come to think of it, I honestly don't remember, that's how little she fought it. She is now 29 months old, and has taken to sucking her index finger while holding onto her lovey...bunny-bunny. As for our 9 month old twins...one has recently decided he's done with his and refuses to take it even when he's screaming his cute little head off, and the other one settles right down the minute it touches his lips. Not sure when or how we will help that one get rid of his "little habit" as well.
DaniPermalink Reply by Dani on June 16, 2009 at 2:33pm
My eldest used one at night until he was 4 and a half! If he didn't have it, he would just suck on his pjs or the quilt, which was ruining them with all that sucking and twisting! But I finally told him that this was his last paci, and when it was gone, we would not be buying another one. He kept very close tabs on it for several months, but then it disappeared one day and that was that. A few tears, but he wasnearly 5!
Otherwise, my mom used to do the Paci Fairy thing. Pacifiers were left on the porrch one night and taken away by the P.F. to give to some other little baby who now needed them, and a gift was left in their place.
Another good idea that worked for a friend of mine was to buy a special stuffed animal and with the help of the child, cut a whole in its belly, stuff the pacifiers in, sew it back up, and have that be the new special nighttime comfort.

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